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writes:My son is 21. I learned a few months ago he is dating a woman who is 28. She has 3 children - the oldest one being 14. He says he loves her. I think she is using him. I have stated my concerns such as she's married, she is 7 years older than you, her oldest child is 7 years younger than you, do you really think are you ready for this kind of responsibility....however; Im afraid if I keep harping on it I will push him even more towards her. He told me a couple of weeks ago she has started divorce proceedings. He of course believes this a show of her true love. I tell myself he is 21 - technically an adult but how can I sit by and watch him ruin his life.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (26 February 2011):
She's using him for what? His big salary at the local Best Buy? Tell him to use a condom and don't get married, and he'll be fine. She's no more likely to break his heart than any other girl, and broken hearts do not ruin lives.
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