A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a really big problem at the moment, me and my mum and dad went to visit my aunt in hospital and other family members poped in and a random conversation about babies and sex started.. I looked so guilty and everything. My mum now suspects me not being a virgin and she gave me this look as in to say i know what you did, and then she said we will talk tomorow. What the hell am i going to do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Tbosse +, writes (11 July 2010):
Tel her the truth of what she may ask otherwise the guilt will be havier when you lie.she was once a teenager,she knows beta than u can hide!
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female
reader, DrPsych +, writes (11 July 2010):
If that guilty look is because you have been sexually active it would just be a good idea to tell your mother (if she asks) rather than lie. Frankly if you are old enough to have sex, you are old enough to tell a parent. She may not approve but it is part of accepting that your child is growing up. She maybe worried you will end up getting pregnant at a young age, but you just need to reassure her that you know all about the birds and the bees. She will get over it!
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