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writes:Please help, I think I really blew it with a guy I liked very much. I met him almost a year ago, but we have been hanging out together for a few months now. We live in different cities which are about 2 hours away so I don't see him all the time. I don't think he's ever been the best communicator and I he's a little shy with women. I usually would have to text him first even though he would eagerly respond. He's 30 and I'm 24. Anyway, he normally visits me when he's in town but last week I went to visit him. We went out and I ended up getting kind of drunk. I was really embarrassed about it because I even threw up on the way home. :/ I stayed at his place and we had sex the next morning. Before this we never even kissed. I really didn't expect things to happen this way, but they just did. Afterwards we cuddled and talked for almost an hour. Now I'm back in my city and haven't heard from him in over a week. I tried to text him, but he didn't even respond. Normally I would just forget about this guy, but I really can't. I liked him so much and I feel terrible about what happened. This isn't typical and I don't know what came over me. Is there anyway I can correct the situation? Some people I know have told me that I should try calling him. I really don't want it to be awkward since we've used text, but never actually called each other on the phone before. Any suggestions? Please don't just tell me to forget about it because I can't. I need to try to at least talk to him once more before I can have any peace of mind....I've let it go for a week now and I just keep thinking about him more and more.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 I you have to try, and it sounds like you do, then pick up the phone. It may be awkward (possibly very), but you never know til you try. Just ask him pretty quickly if he's like to meet up soon. If he's evasive, then that's a no.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 Sex changes the dynamics of the equations. Give him sometime to think about the new situation. If he texts you again , then everything will be back to normal.
If he does not contact you , it is all over. You should not crawl back to him.
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