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*egaworm123
writes:Alright, I'm having a slight problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for a few weeks now and we've yet to have sex...which is perfectly fine considering I'm a virgin. Anyway, to make a long story a little bit longer, he can't last long at all when I give him head. He cums pretty quickly. The first time it happened (which might I add was my first time giving head ever) he pre-ejeculated everywhere which I insisted was 'fine' because he was really embarrassed and with out a doubt pissed off. He's been with other girls, has had some semi long term relationships...he's been around the block a few times; but this has never happened to him before. I try to just laugh it off with him like it's no big deal, but he's getting really frustrated with himself. The only consolation he can give either of us is telling me, "You're just extremely...extremely good at it. Like surprisingly good at it, considering you've never done this before...are you sure you've never done this before?". What the hell do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Simply, I believe that he's just very turned on by you. I am sure that he will get through this thing, like a phase. If anything, just keep blowing him even after "his dynamite explodes." Once he gets used to your "jobs," you can go ahead with some new stuff
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Well I must agree with the anonymous female that the boyfriend is very turned-on by you, particular when you begin giving him head. Heck, I probably would release quickly as well, although I've had thousands of blow jobs.
But you could try doing more slow licking up and down the sides, and licking/sucking balls awhile before sucking. And as "almasdp" said, why be so concerned that he gets-off quickly? I've never minded a fairly quick release on occasion, but as a man, I do enjoy several minutes of the loving pleasure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): He's really into you, and he's young. Just pace yourself with him, and you can help him regain control by squeezing hard on the base of his penis when he gets close. Also, a condom or anesthetic cream will help him last longer too, since it'll dull his sensitivity. Some guys can get so excited about the possibility of sex with the woman they love that they'll cum from kissing alone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): First off, giving head is sex. What you dont do is having intercourse. You are having sex. But back to the point, I think you just happen to have the magical touch. Try doing something different next time and see if he lasts longer? Maybe he had been going for a while without a womans touch. Believe me it feels extra good for them if they've had to go without for a while.
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