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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in need of desperate help, I've been with my girlfriend for more than half a year and she has yet to tell me how she feels, she keeps telling me she'll tell me soon and needs more time to think. She doesn't seem to talk much to me and isn't affectionate towards me yet I do so much for her. My question is this, should I wait a little longer or just walk away from this? Reply to this Question
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (24 May 2008):
 Hey Mate..
Look, You can't wait for her to "develop" feeling for you.. !! She either has feelings for you or Not... !! As simple as that.. !!
You know what, sometimes these girlz like to keep the guy hanging, That is to increase their Value.. You need to tell her you're moving on. Once you do that you'll know what she wants..
If she STOPS you, she likes you.. If she shows attitude, That's her true color.. !!
G'day..
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reader, rproctor +, writes (23 May 2008):
Wow man that is not a question for us that is a question for you! Only you have that answer... Do you think its worth waiting for? If so then yes... If not then leave... Maybe if you feel that its not then you could maybe put it out on the table and let her know that its all or nothing...
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reader, mattie90 +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Well my opinion would be to try and talk to her about it. Ask her if she's having any feelings towards you at all, or you could give her an ultimatum which might seem a little unfair to her. But it could work also if you're having feelings towards her. Tell her how you feel, she might open up then, because some girls don't like to tell what the'yre feeling. Sum girls might not say what they're feeling until suomeone else says it first. Hope it helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): How do you feel about her?
Think about what would make you happier. Would you be happier waiting for what could be weeks, months or even years? To end maybe with her telling you that she loves you or perhaps saying that she only wants to be your friend. The longer you leave it the more hurt you'll be if her answer is the latter (Just keep that in mind).
It sounds as though she could be using you seeing as you do so much for her and she is not even affectionate.
You have to go with what your heart tells you.
Would you be happier to end it now and save any heart ache? You would have to live with never knowing of it would have worked out or not, but I'm sure you would get over her after a while and forget that wondering feeling.
Good Luck.
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