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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'll try to keep a long story short here. Was with a girl for 2.5 years and didn't treat her how she deserved to be. Had lot's of good times but had some times where I treated her like **** because of her lies(sometimes for my better) and I had some anger issues. Well the time i relized this it was to late. I tried to tell and show her how sorry I was the last 8 months. I love this girl death. During these 8 months she has been seeing this guy on and off and basically is with him but every so often tells me that she wants us again and loves me. She has cheated on him twice with me and then just claiming she got caught up and it ment nothing and is happy with him. One day she will say she has no feelings and then 2 weeks later she will say she misses me so much and we should hang out sometime. She will always drop random text messages too things like our old anniversery date and asking me if saw what the date was today and what might have been with us. I dont know what to do anymore. I love this girl and i've tried so hard these last 8 months to show her i've changed which I have and i feel like I owe it to her to keep trying for treating her wrong for long. But as much as I try to get over her i'll always get my hopes right back up.
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reader, unsure heart  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 firstly if she cheated on her guy with you it only means one thing she'll do the same to you. Once a cheat always a cheat. This girl is clearly trying to screw with your brain. She knows how you feel about her and will do anything for her and that she's taking advantage of. This girl doesn't want to be with you she is trying to hurt you back and maby even worse. Get over this girl, meet someone new you will find someone worth while this I can promise you from experience.
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