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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Help!Ive been dating this guy for 6 weeks and it has been like a whirlwind! have had a fantastic time with him. However he is in the process of moving into his flat. I have shown him mistrust as i haven't seen where he lives and haven;t seen anything in his world. However he has been in my world and met my daughter, which i think was far too quick. I may have trust issues but at my age (41) i need to know im being taken seriously. He has reassured twice now but still not sure. So he has distanced himself, which just makes me mistrust him even more and now i have pushed him even further away. What should i do. I told him i was really sorry for doubting him and maybe we should have abreak. Then when he is settled in his flat we could try again. Really like this guy and dont want it to end just yet.What do you think i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Your gut is telling you that something's maybe a bit off. Go with your gut. By the time we're in our 40s we've learned a thing or two.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): I think something is wrong, after 6 wks he shouldn't have a problem with you seeing his world. A break is a good idea.
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