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writes: HiI split up with my ex husband who had chased me for 6 years when I finally agreed to marry him, only after 6 months! We have had no contact for 4 years and he suddenly text me last week. We saw each other for lunch and he has suggested meeting up again.I cant figure out why he contacted me? He wont say..I really want him back and I dont know how to act? I kept crying when I saw him. I am sure I looked silly!
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reader, Faerie_Queen +, writes (16 March 2006):
 Play hard to get. If he sees that you want him back so much he could use that against you. Don't make yourself so easily available. Remember, he contacted you after 4 years, not the other way round. He wants something from you, try and find out what that is before you give yourself to him. I know it's hard not to cry infront of him, but try not to show your emotions infront of him. Keep it together infront of him, and cry behind closed doors. He chased you once before, if he's missed you, and is wanting you back, let him chase you again, but stay on your guard, keep you feet on the ground, and your head out of the clouds.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (16 March 2006):
 Sweetie, you may want him back, but you have to try and be tough when you see him. If he sees that you're doing great without him, that may make him want you more.
It's nice for you that he wants to meet up again with you, maybe this could be a new start with you two. Just go with the flow and don't try and rush things with him. He may have realized one day that he missed you and just wanted to see you. If he sees you're doing great, that will really look good on your part.
Just be tough and maybe someday you guys can start a new future together.
You aren't being silly either about crying, you must be emotional and you missed him and want him back. Knowing he isn't yours isn't easy.
Good Luck!
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