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41-50,
*illrf
writes:I recently made friends with a girl online and we really got on well to start with but past week we have had arguements around me being moody because I get anxious when waiting for a reply; I end up being rude. She is in a relationship but has cheated on her partner but says to me she is not going to do it again.I get jealous when she sees this person. My friend has gone on holiday and before she left we had words over a sarcastic comment I made. Now she is not replying to any messages I send I know she has access to phone as is posting on instantagram. I have a lot of stress in my life and so miss her I don't know what to do none of my friends understand
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 April 2016):
 I think it's time to work on yourself! You're aware of your short comings, now do something about them!
You are rude? You get anxious? Start with this then, your goal should be for it not to happen. You get jealous? Then I think it is fair to say she's not a friend and you want more ;)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 April 2016):
 You where rude to her so u both argued. Maybe you need to work on your anxiety issues first so that it can help you in the future have a bit more patience.
You say she has cheated before but will not do it again, but are you wanting more than a friendship with her? if you are then you need to accept what she is saying. You are jealous of someone's boyfriend, I think you need to understand and accept that this girl is already in a relationship, it sounds to me like you want more than friendship and she does not.
You need to deal with the stress in your life either by yourself or get help for your problems, but I think you need to accept she is not a friend and I think she has had enough off chatting to you. Maybe get help for your issues and meet people in person more than online.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 April 2016):
 Doesn't sounds like any kind of friendship I'd ever have. She was looking for attention without crossing the line into cheating and I think you were looking for something MORE than a GF.
When a person (you) come across as moody and clingy, the banter and conversations turns pointless.
If you can't BE a friend, I mean a REAL friend, then don't. Cut the contact.
And maybe look at your own behavior a little closer. And if you are looking for a FRIEND maybe do go for a women who isn't really looking for friendship but ego rubs...
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