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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Gud evening , my question is . I met a guy online he live in abroad so since then we have been chatting on november 2011 he propose to me he said he's coming back next month and we will make love before marriage and am not ready to make love to him before marriage and since 2days he has change we no longer chat they way we use to . Am confuse I don't know if he still want me and I love him . Plz guide me on what to do . Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 November 2011):
It does sounds like he is after sex, not marriage.
If he is a good guy, he will respect you and your wishes and not push for sex any more.
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female
reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (18 November 2011):
Hi,
Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable. Just because he asked you to marry, doesn't mean anything. Please, be careful...
Good luck
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 November 2011):
sounds to me like a scam to have sex with you sweetie.
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female
reader, Miamine +, writes (18 November 2011):
Guy just wanted sex.. forget him.
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female
reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (18 November 2011):
Did he change because you told him no sex before marriage? If yes, this might mean he only wanted to have sex with you, not marriage.
If you havent told him no sex before marriage yet, you need to tell him this is your belief and wish, so that when you meet he already knows there will be no sex.
good luck
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male
reader, The Realist +, writes (17 November 2011):
You have to stand by the beliefs that make you happy. Personally I don't think this is an odd thing. I wouldn't marry someone who I didn't have sex with first and that is for my own personal beleifs.
This is where you have to choose your beliefs or the guy who wants to marry you. I can't make that decision for you.
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