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writes: I met this wonderful guy in Oct 05. I'm 31 and he's 25. He works out of town a lot in the metal pipe/construction business. We hung out a lot for the 2 weeks he was in town and we really hit it off. He stayed over a couple of nights and we really felt a connection (no, we didn't have sex). Last night I saw him in Oct. We had a long talk and we both really liked each other and were attracted to each other. I knew and felt that he really liked me. He stayed the night and left that day and said he would call me. I never heard from him. He contacted me in the middle of December by msn apologizing for not contacting me but he was out of town working, and I believe he was scared of facing his feelings (I had made a real big impression on him and he thought about me lots). He took me out for dinner the other night and debated coming back to my place because he was leaving the next day. He showed me the little card that I gave him in Oct. that he kept in his wallet which he still had. He came back to my place and we were once again intimately close. Never heard from again. Things like this U usually would take it as him not being interested but I do feel that he is really scared of what he feels about me (we have a really strong connection). Are guys scared to fall in love? Why? Can I help him open up or is he scared to get involved?
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reader, Peter +, writes (17 December 2005):
In all truth I think he will have other girls elsewhere. You should ask him. It is simply not acceptable to put up with this behaviour any more. Be strong, and tell him to get lost if he cannot commit.
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reader, shania  +, writes (17 December 2005):
 When i read this i did get a warning sign,now i could be completly wrong but i have a feeling that he either has a girlfriend all ready,or worse still a wife.Why do i think that? because if a fella is interested in you then why would he keep playing games with you? He never gave you his number,why? and he only contacts you when he feels like it.That doesnt sound like he is connected to you like you said.I dont think it is anything to do with being scared to falling in love.This bloke seems half hearted with you.You wait for him to ring you and he doesnt call,when you do see him he stays the night then runs off the next morning.This guy is using you.In my book a fella sees a girl,he asks her out,they date,if all goes well they see each other again,if they dont click,then they go their seperate ways.This fella is not being straight with you.He is too secretive for my liking.
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