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writes:Dear agony unclesI'm a woman and I really would like to have a man's view on this!What does a proposal mean to you?What is it like to propose to your longtime girlfriend, if she was waiting for it for a long time and sent A LOT of hints? Do you want to surprise her with the question even she is really expecting it or do you think it is not necessary anymore?If you would propose to her, because she is expecting it, why would you do it?I really would like to watch inside a man's head and I want to know how they are thinking about this thing which is really a big thing for a woman, but I don't know if it is also for a man.Thanks for all the answers! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): I've proposed twice in my life and unfortunately both times they said 'yes' which ultimately cost me a small fortune in divorce lawyers fees and settlements.
If I was to propose again - and I'm certainly not about to - I'm certain that I would be turned down, not because we don't love each other but because we're both of the opinion that if it's not broke, there's no need to try to fix it. There's no chance of us having the patter of tiny feet running around so it's not necessary to get married.
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