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writes:me and my best friends brother have always flirted but recently we had a drunken kiss. He initiated it but i feel guilty. My friend had mentioned to me previously that if any of our friends went out with her brother it would be wierd and she wouldn't like it but when it happened i was feeling vulnerable as a result of just ending a realtionship and not to mention drunk from going out! it's been a couple of weeks now and i havent told my friend because i dont see the point if it doesnt mean anything however i do like him but am unsure if he feels the same. I don't know whether or not telling her would be the right thing to do?
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reader, b1sheaba +, writes (22 February 2007):
 You may not want to, but telling her would be the right thing. Think of it this way, everyone makes mistakes or has feelings that they can't help. A true friend would understand that, even if it is her brother. If she makes that big of a deal out of it when all you try to do is be a good friend on your part by telling her what happened and not keep anything from her, then she wouldn't have been a very loyal friend in the first place. Just talk it through with her before anything else happens and let her know that you wouldn't want to lose her friendship over something like this.
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