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Masturbation problem...?

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Question - (7 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A male Canada age 30-35, *obbyZ writes:

When I watch porn my penis gets hard and stays hard while I'm stroking it. But once I stop and let go of it, it stays hard for like 5 more seconds and then it starts to soften up. When I look at the porno stars their penises stay hard without touching them. What can i do?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (7 April 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntDo a bit of studying on the following subjects. "Fluffer", "Viagra" and "Movie editing".

That explains why porn stars appear perfect.

Find a torrent site and locate some porn bloopers, that should show you that even the best fail at times.

Now 5 seconds seems short, are you physically healthy? Is the porn actually appealing to you?

Do you get a hardon when you don't watch porn, can you get one just by thinking about sex?

If you are under stress that will affect your erection. 5 seconds seems awfully short to me, especially for a young man.

If it doesn't stay hard unless you are watching porn and stimulating directly I would definitly seek medical attention, although it might be as simple as too much stress. Worrying about it of course creates stress, bit of a catch 22.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

I would strongly advise getting a real girlfriend as porn is only make-believe, artificial type stimulation. Reality is extremely more exciting, therefore enabling you to maintain an erection for as long as you're both 'at it'!

Porn stars stay hard longer because they are actually 'doing it', not watching a film about someone else doing it. Good luck!

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