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writes:where to start...Im an addict and i know this. I lie to myself and to those who really know me and tell them/myself that i dont have any morals and i do what my whims make me do. I have done some really messed up things in this regard. Sex. I'm addicted to the high i get when i orgasm and i find many ways to satisfy it, like a hunger deep inside of me. every time i give into it afterwards i feel so ashamed and worthless but then i do it all over again. i haven't been faithful to any of my girlfriends throughout my life and now im with a girl who i know loves me and whom i know i don't love. shes wonderful and loves me to bits and i tried to cut her off to save her from being hurt but she just...ignored it...as if i had not dumped her and still comes over, cooks, cleans, calls me everyday and misses me. I'm such a piece of garbage and i know it. those who see me on a day to day basis would never know, i radiate confidence and make everyone around me laugh and feel joy. I'm the one who helps everyone out and sets an example in my career and family. but deep inside i feel like Patrick Bateman from American psycho. i talk to myself sometimes and i do all these insane things to satisfy my urges. like paying strippers for sex or hooking up with college girls while telling them a fake name and information. using drop phones and all sorts of lies. but really out of all that, whats really bothering me is my constant constant masturbation. i think its affecting my hard-on's during intercourse. the other night i was with a nice blonde and doing my thing and then out of nowhere...i had either remorse or something and bam...like a rag doll it was gone. its been happening more often now and im not sure of the cause.overall, my question is. can constant masturbation (4-5 times a day) affect intercourse negatively?
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reader, energizerbunny +, writes (7 November 2011):
energizerbunny is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for your answers. i have been considering going on one of those no porn/no masturbation diets but havent decided entirely yet. i dont beleive im crazy because i would not be able to know it if i was but i admit that i am a bit damaged and twisted. but its ok. the outercoating is still all frosting :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2011): It can affect your sexual relationship with women negatively in the sense that you could become desensitized. In other words, you can only get off masturbating and not with a woman. A lot of guys have this issue because of chronic masturbation, but it's not the end of the world. If you're willing to work at resolving addiction you will get that intimacy back again.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 November 2011):
 While it may impede your coital capabilities, I've found that the greater injury from constant masturbation was the degradation of my eyesight, and the wear-and-tear that has resulted in my shoulder rotator-cuff, over the years.....
P.S. My Mother told me that it would make me mad (insane) but, so far, that has not happened.......
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