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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello dear friends, This is crunch time and I'm guessing that putting it in writing might solve the problem itself, but I would love to hear your advice and another point of view, here goes: My Girlfriend and I been together for 6 years (both age 31), we had ups and downs like any other couple. and we are open to each other and we talk about any problem we have (even this one ) we are both giving all that we can into this relationship and we are understanding the power we have as a couple so we are working together to make this relationship always better. we both know and feel that we need to take this a step forward and think of children but I often have withdrawals about us (I would love to have children !!!). I am 100% aware that I often make excuses for myself and Im looking for reasons not to be together but Im wondering whether this is also a massive neon sign that this relationship isnt a true love, and this ideal thought I have of what true love should be simply isnt the one I have at home. Yes, we talked about it and Yes, we are trying to make it work but my fears are that after 3 children,a house and a dog I would relies how unhappy I am. thank for your time folks I would love reading your thoughts , Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009): I find that in life a lot ov people dont know a good thing when they have it.. Could this be the case. U say that u hav a good relationship, good communication & u have come this far. Do u realy want to throw all that away? True love is not like the movies. It takes commitment & dedication. It is journey that u take together. There is always something else out there & u are free to decide ur own destiny but the grass is not always greener on the other side. Think it through very carefully before u act. U culd live to regrett it for a very long time. Goodluck in life & love.
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