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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:A question to all you women out there who are married, to a man who has been faithful to you, and yet you decided to cheat: why did you do it? What lead you to cheat? Was it something you were not getting from your husband? Was it something in you that really has little to do with him? Was it mere circumstance: you were drunk on a girls trip and he was hot and young, etc?I would be very curious to know your candid thoughts of why you decided to seek sex outside of your marriage with a faithful partner. And finally, was it a one time thing, or have you done it multiple times - and did you ever tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): I have not cheated on my husband, but was tempted to a couple of times. I think, for me, the temptation was this: Both temptations came from men who thought I hung the moon. I felt admired, valued, uplifted. Their interest in me as a person made me feel like a wanted woman, not a convenience at the end of the day. I didn't cheat, because that is crossing a line which I would not want to face God about someday.
I think that cheating has more to do with the cheater than the victim. Could be the cheater wants to feel validated in some way - either physically or mentally, emotionally, etc. There are a multitude of underlying reasons for this, most of them not related to the physcial at all.
I hope you can work things out.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): I cheated on my now ex husband because he only made me feel sexy desireable and wanted in the bedroom even when i put alot of effort into looking hot and sexy throught other times he never noticed but other men did
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