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writes: my husband and i have married for 16 yrs. we are still in love. and he still gives me the tingle sometime were in a room of people and he looks and me and winks. i love him very much. BUT he wants sex 24-7. he still turns me on but i don,t want it alllllllll the time like he does. i see the hurt in is eyes but he says he will wait. i get sore and sometime i want to be the one to start sometime but he beats me to it . HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, Country Woman  +, writes (21 April 2006):
 I think it is time you sat down with your husband and told him how you feel.
Different people are sometimes more sexually motivated than others and I know that my now ex wanted sex a lot more than me and the soreness affected me a lot too. He needs to know when you are in discomfort and you need to tell him.
Perhaps you could suggest not always full sex i.e. foreplay and/or oral sex and getting him to achieve ejaculation without having to be inside you. Dressing up and having the sexual tension does not mean that you love him less but if he does have such a high sex drive then perhaps he needs masturbation a bit more. Like I have already said you can be involved.
What happens when you have your period? Is he understanding then?
I know you love him and he loves you but if one partner is not happy then you need to discuss it further.
I am sure you will get a lot more responses and probably more sound advice so I wish you well and there are always people hear to listen.
Take care.
BFN
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