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writes:Im not sure if this is a question or me just wanting feedback here goesI've been married for almost 11 years. After our first year, my husband told me he had a fantasy which was having a threesome mfm. he wanted to see me with another guy. I was pissed, here it is my second marriage and this is what he wants! How is this? i thought about it and i so wanted to please him i believe in pleasing the one you love so i did and didnt enjoy it and told him i wouldnt do it again. The 8 yrs following were horrendous my husband was possessive, jealous and I was alienated from everyone friends family etc. So 2 yrs ago, i brought up the subject and he changed 100%. No more jealous and i have some freedom at last. I told him that i wanted to have a one on one with one of our 3some partners and he flipped. So i secretly have been setting with this person for about 1 and half and this week i had my one on one. i do not feel guilty, i feel if one does something to please another the other should do the same. what do you think?
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reader, activeplay +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Sounds like you need to divorce and move on honestly. Why are you and your "loving husband" putting your mixed emotions together. I know its a tough place to be in but I guess Marshall Mathers III is right when he says "Guess this is what happens when a tornado meets a volcano". You going to get a winded explosion. Prevent it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 What do i think? Firstly i think you are in the wrong in thinking that this is right. Because your husband didnt agree to this yet you agreed to the 3some so you cant hold that against him you should have never agreed.
If your husband is posessive and you are not happy in this marriage then i suggest that you get out of it, because if you are not happy why put yourself through this, infedelity in a marriage is a clear sign that it is not workin i think it is time you went your seperate ways and then you are free to sleep with whoever you want.
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