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anonymous
writes:I am happily married but feeling quite overwhelmed by my feelings for another married friend. I've been feeling this way for about 3yrs and i sometimes think he feels something also. The problem is i want to stop these feelings before he picks up on them. We have never spoken inappropriately, but we have a chat once a week or so, usually with my child there. Sometimes it feels awkward, maybe because i'm nervous of him finding out how i feel. Should i avoid him and hope these feelings disappear or should i just tell him that i can't see him anymore. I know that if we don't have our usual chat,he will text me. I do not intend breaking up my family or his. Would really appreciate your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): Avoid him.
Don't respond to his texts.
If you do this, the feelings will dissipate. If you don't, they will continue and you will end up in a shitstorm of your own making.
He is texting you and flirting with you and you like it. He probably knows he's getting a response, and wants it to go further. Why do you think he is texting you.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (6 June 2011):
 You need to avoid him, if you want to keep the life you have now. Out of sight, out of mind. Then you need to find out what your marriage is lacking and reconnect with your husband. Perhaps a little weekend getaway with just you two?
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