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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My best friend knows I like this boy, who she's friends with. They've been friends for about nine months. Whenever I'm with the two of them, she makes a point of touching him as much as possible, and while she does it, she looks at me. She always randomly hugs him for five minutes or more at a time, all the while looking at me with a smug expression. She's really suggestive with him, and one time she even took off his t-shirt while I was there and put it on herself.She has a boyfriend, as well, and they've been together for about four months. Is she flirting with him or is it just in my head? And should I say something? I mean, she knows I like him, you'd think she'd back off a little bit, wouldn't you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): if i were you i would spend some time with this guy without having your friend or any friends around. let him get to know you more and maybe something will start between you in the future. if you two did end up becoming a couple thats when you should then let him know how you feel about your friend flirting with him. good luck!
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reader, XxMishxX +, writes (6 June 2011):
hey,
i wouldnt trust a girl anywhere near my man after my experiences. Yes she is flirting with him and to be honest i think shes doing it to wind you up? girls are b*tches like that. By the sounds of it, your not going out with this guy? how come? does he know u like him? if not then my honest answer is shes doing it to wind you up and she is no friend. If you were younger id say shes just immature and messing about but at your age, she should be more mature. She knows whats right and wrong. If you were to get with him (or any other man) what would she do then? my guess is be exactly the same and flirt with him. You dont need someone like that! take it from a girl who knows.
I was best friends with a girl, at the time i had a fiance and was pregnant, i thought great they are getting on, then she asked for his number and i was a little suspicious but i didnt give it her and didnt think anything of it. A few months later, i was 5months pregnant and just the day before moved into a house with him. I found msgs on his phone, from her, flirting, arranging to meet up to 'kiss and cuddle and maybe more' i was crushed and so upset, what upset me more is my 2 other best mates new she liked him and never told me! My point is, dont wait until something like that happens and you end up broken like i was. have it out with her and either cut her out your life or if you stay friends with her dont trust her around any of your bfs! I know how much stuff like that effects you, iv lost all my friends, i dont want to make new friends because i wouldnt trust them or him, if i was to get new friends, i wouldnt ever bring them home! just tread carefully on this one. Dont make the mistake i did!
hope this helps!
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