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Married and hating it! What am I do to about my husband's affairs?

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Question - (11 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

i have been with my husband 27 years. I know of at least 3 affairs he has had only been caught in one. I like a fool decided to stay with him. I have no place else to go And do not know what to do. I found out 6 years ago he had an affair with our sons wifes oldest sister. And she admitted it to me. But he said it was the worst SEX he ever had and so I stayed with him. Their affair happened at our sons house while he was away getting an AA Treatment and his wife was at work. So I Know she Knew it was going on. And he told me he turned to this other woman because he could talk to her about things and he Hated me and could not talk to me. But he says he ended the affair he only had sex with her 2 times. But we have trying to make a go of our marriage every since. But more everyday I hate him touching me, Kissing me My skin crawls at even thinking of him doing anything to me. Because I got a VERY BAD Viral Infection from him being with her. I had HIV, Aids, VD and several other tests done after finding out he was with her and some woman called the Hospital and had all them Cancelled. When I called about the result they told me I had called and cancelled them so the results were destroyed. But since he was with her I have No Immunity someone Sneezes I get a Pnemonia or Bronchitis. I get a cut and It will get infected before it will Heal. If I go to the ER and he is with me the test all come back Negative But he will Have to Leave the Room while we are their to go Bathroom and then in just a littlwhile all esult are negative. But if I go By myself I will find out I have a Viral Pnemonia or a Bacterial Pnemonia. Almost funny. I am unable to work now Because my health is to Bad to even work a few Hours a day. But he makes to Much for me to Be eligible for SSI OR Disability.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008):

Your question doesn't make much sense. I'm sorry but i think you have been a little ambitious in what you were trying to say and it has gone way over my head.

Could you make it more simple, and i'll have a go at trying to help you out?

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