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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:im married for almost 8months.im still virgin.im too scared to have sex because of the pain.my husband is really pissed with me.please advice how to avoid this and the right position to make love . Reply to this Question
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Hello
It's going to take both of you to make this a pleasurable experience for you.
Firstly go to your doctor and make sure there is nohing physically wrong before you begin.
When you get the all clear - which I'm sure you will.
Then you need to try and relax when your trying to have sex, you need to have lots of reasurrance and lots of foreplay kissing and touching. Maybe give each other a massage. Buy a book or look on the net for tips and information to make you relax during sex and work through these things with your husband. I'm sure your husband will be happy to help, I know he seems mad but I'm sure he's just fruatrated about not being able to please you, and you both want to just have a good and pleasurable sex life.
Good Luck!
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