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writes: I have been married 3 times. And terrible hurt all 3 times. Why should I fall in love with a man now? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 June 2007):
I don't think you should be put off from falling in love, ok so you have been abit unlucky in love, but your time will come, one day you will meet a man to spend the rest of your life with and be really happy.
I have had two bad relationships in the past, which thankfully i never married them, and consequently i went through quite a bad time. Although at the moment i am enjoyng the single life of doing what i want i remain optimistic that the girl of my dreams is out there somewhere. Invariably we find the person for us when we are not even looking for them.
Good luck x
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reader, Farris +, writes (3 June 2007):
There is no should or shouldn't about falling in love with a man.
You either do or you don't. You can take steps to prevent it (cage your heart off from the world) or you can just go with the flow.
I'm sorry that you've had terrible experience with your ex-husbands, but there are good men out there, and it is still possible for you to find one if you so wish.
Maybe at this point in your life, especially with your scepticism, it would be a good idea for you to focus on your social life and friends? Going into a relationship whilst bitter about relationships will only make you feel worse.
Good luck & Best wishes.
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