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writes:Dear friends there.I'm 19 and I have a girlfriend, we're madly in love, it's now 1 and a half years. The problem is that she's 2 years older than me, and so in 3-4 years she would marry. By that time i will be too young and actually do not want to marry then, and I'm not quite sure about marrying at all. She once told me that she cares about getting married. I have a bad feeling to thing that every thing is going to end up in a few years, what can i do? I, personally think, that i'm mature enough in my life, but should i trust my first love in this age? I have never experienced any other girl. (we had never had sex, just kissed so many times) Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 You are only a 19 year old lad and I'm not suprised marriage is the last thing on your mind. You need to talk to your girlfriend and explain how you feel about marriage. maybe later on you will wnat to marry but you cant see it happening in the time frame she has set. Why does she want to get marred so bad? and if you really aren't sure then you shouldn't be pushed in to it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2007): she never seems to have said she wants to marry you. just that she wants to get married. marriage is just another step and if you're worried about something that is a few years in the future, its more likely that its HER you're having doubts about not marriage in general. but thats ok. theres no rule that says you two have to be together forever. just take things as they come.
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