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Male arousal..how easy is it for the guy? Any thoughts?

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Question - (1 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2008)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Just a question about male arousal.

I've heard many times that guys become aroused very easily, easier than girls anyway, and I was just wondering to what extent. I was told that things like being touched in the wrong place or just seeing a really pretty girl can set them off, is that true? E.g if you like sit in a guy's lap will they become aroused? And does it depend on their age? And doesn't it take some mental stimulation as well to be aroused? Or is it just physical..

Thanks.

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A male reader, Wanabee United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

Hi. Males do get aroused very easily, the younger they are (ex. 13-21) touching, kissing, thinking about etc...and sitting on a lap could make a male aroused very easily.

It true, us males are very visual, can be aroused by the way a female dresses (ex. short skirts, revealing or shapefull tops, make up) and is hard not to be arroused.

When males get older, (30's +) arousel can lessen, and in some cases my need more stimulation.

Hope this answers your question.

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A male reader, Wanabee United Kingdom +, writes (5 August 2008):

Hi. Males do get aroused very easily, the younger they are (ex. 13-21) touching, kissing, thinking about etc...and sitting on a lap could make a male aroused very easily.

It true, us males are very visual, can be aroused by the way a female dresses (ex. short skirts, revealing or shapefull tops, make up) and is hard not to be arroused.

When males get older, (30's +) arousel can lessen, and in some cases my need more stimulation.

Hope this answers your question.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

OK, thanks heaps for that.

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A female reader, CynthiaRenae United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

It is very true that guys get arouse much much easier than girls. Simple things like sitting in their lap, touching hair, or even a hug can cause this. Also, they way girls dress these days doesn't help either. Males are turned on physically and visually while females are turned on emotionally. Especially at your age it is more common. When you and the boys get older this may or may not change depending on the boy and situation!! But respect yourself and your space and don't give the boys too much to think about. There's plenty of time for that when you're much older.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 October 2007):

Danielepew agony auntThey have told you the truth.

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