Making the best of a situation .... or the worst

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So i was seeing this girl for a couple months and i wanted a relationship and she wanted to a have a fling i didnt want that so i moved on. I didnt see her for a couple weeks came back and she asked if we could talk i said i didnt think it was smarth then she was like i shouldve done this two weeks ago. I was like what and she was like i want to be with you. Well to make a long story short i waitied three days and asked her to be my gf and she was like its to soon. So i moved on and i realized a couple months down the road i want to be with her and made she came to that too. So i told her the other night and she told me she was seeing someone. I said i respect ur decision i just want you to be happy. I get a text the day we work together saying i dont know how to tell u this but im in a relationship. I was to scared to tell you. So i was like congrads. I already know about it. (because of her bestfriend becca). And i said i am happy for you. Then i go into work and as i am leaving the break room she walks in and i just walk right by her. She texts me saying i hope we can still be friends. I didnt respond she asked me twice before she left didnt respond. Am i doing the right thing? I know she aint coming back because she made the decision and she knew what i wanted so i am not asking if she will come back. I am asking did i handle this well.

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