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writes: HiThis year I have gotten into a really close group of friends. It consists of me, two other girls and two guys. We spend most of our time at school together, but I have a problem. I have a huge crush on one of the guys, I just can't get him out of my head! I don't want to tell him because I'm scared it will ruin our friendship and our group will end up broken. I tried to put it out of my mind and get over him, but how can I when he's everywhere? Not just at school but we have a part time job together and I often see him at weekends. I told my best friend, who doesn't go to school with us, and she doesn't think I shouldn't do anything about it. I told one of the girls in our group at school and she thinks I should tell him! I can't decide! Also, the problem has now started to get worse because I know he likes a girl from my school and I see him with her all the time. I know nothing will happen because she already has a boyfriend but it still bothers me! What should I do?
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 Maybe the girl you told who is part of this group has a little insider knowledge? Have you asked her if he ever talks to her about you? If you are having problems decideing here maybe it wouldn't hurt to ask your friend within the group to try and do a little subtle recon. If you found out how he felt maybe you would feel more confident in making a descision.
If he is your friend and you tell him how you feel, even if he doesnt feel the same way then it shouldn't cause any permanent damage to the friendship group. Sure it might be awkward at first but after you have got throught that the friendship should return to normal. Get some more info first then follow your heart. Hope that helps.
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