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Love sex, but can't orgasm.

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Question - (7 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

I Love Sex!!!!

My question is: I am in my 50's, and am I looking for a man. When I have found one, we go out, usually have sex after the event. The problem: I can't seem to seem to organsim. We try all different positions and nothing works. In fact, when he slides in, it hurts, as well as in other positions. So needless to say, no man wants to be with me, due to my problem. I want to improve this, and have better intercourse with men, but no sure how to improve this. I think the problem is because, I haven't been with a man for approx. 4 yrs, and now I want to be with a man again. But, whatever the problem, I am hoping someone can help me with this. I would appreciate all replies.

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (7 February 2008):

hi

not sure if it will help but do you orgasam when you either masturbate or are played with by a man. my experance is women orgasam much more being stimulated that way than with the just stright penis.

the penis dose the finishing part after several intense orgasms. message if you want more info.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 February 2008):

DoubleM agony auntThis one seems a bit of a mystery, but as a 60-year-old man still very active, I do know that many women become a bit "drier" in the region with age. Perhaps an extended period of foreplay, including cunnilingus, would stimulate more natural lubricant within and around the vagina, or a non-oil based lubricant might make penetration easier and allay any pain for you.

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