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writes:I think a lot of us have been in the same situation, I'm in love with a girl I work with but she sees me as a friend. She told me that it is all that is going to be between us... My problem it feels like I’m being tortured each and every day must I say no and walk out of the friendship deal or hang in there till she will one day realize that I'm more than a Friend or any other ideas will help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Sorry babes. If you have shown or told her that you care, and she's not interested, then she won't change her mind. She doesn't love you, but she dose care about you a lot. You must start looking for another job, it's not fair for you to torture yourself this way. If you don't see her, then the love will get weaker and in time you will meet somebody else to love, and they will love you back.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Sorry to hear this. Don't count on her changing her mind about being more than friends with you. If you can't handle seeing her on a friendly basis only, you are free to stop hanging out with her as friends. It sounds like you work with her and will see her some anyway, but I'm sure there are ways to politely minimize your contact with her, and this is probably what's most conducive to you getting over her...which is what you need to try and do here. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Dear Poster
Is it possible that you can provide us with more detail?
Are either of you married?
How often do you have contact at work?
Has there been any thing more then flirting and conversation between the two of you?
How long has this been going on?
I am sorry, but to really be able to give you advice I need more information to get a better perspective.
Looking forward to an update from you.
Lots of good wishes and smiles.
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