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writes:i have being married for 2years with one child.i told him everything about me before we got married.i never hide any secret from him.he was all fine before we got married.we never had any honey moon and failed pregant.when i went for the scan and told him the baby was a girl.he didn't show any excitement. i gave him a phone with all the pictures i took when i had my daughther, he deleted all the pics. i was shocked and mad. i couldn't believe it.when i ask him money for shopping he says he doesn't have sometimes we have to shop in 3 to 4 months.he earns enough to help with the bills and shopping. he has never bought anytghing for his daughter or me. during his birthday i buy him presents which he has never done for me.before he could give me money for shopping or bills he will be extra nice and have sex with me.sometimes i might not be filling well he will want to have sexs with me. he quarrel almost every month.he works mon to sat and on sunday he could spent time with me he goes football.i have tried to sit down to talk several times but the answer i get is he doesn't have problem with me, yet he tells people things about me that are not good.he attacks me with what i told him about my past.he removed his wedding ring and told me is because it hurts his fingers. he lies about smoking cig and may j.he lies alot to me.i have totally falling out of love and dont want to love him again. he has hurt me so much that he has never tried to appologise and know how i feel.he seems his doing me a favor that am desperate for a husband.i feel so unhappy when in comes in from work .some of the things i cant mention here.in my head i have moved on and am emtional detached from him.i feel so unhappy am scared that i wont be able to know how it feels to be loved by someone or be loved in my life.PLZ HELP ME ANYONE OUT THERE.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much with the answer. it really helps. God bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): It sounds like you are ready to either separate or get a divorce. Based on what you said, I think he may have changed his mind about the whole thing after marrying you, and the fact that he has removed his ring is an indication that he does not want to be identified as "unavailable".
I am sure that you will find someone else that will love you and care about you and your daughter. Just do not rush or commit into a new relationship without making sure that your partner is ready to commit.
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