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Lost my virginity to my ex...now my boyfriend says he can tell...

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Question - (3 March 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2005)
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I was raped by my ex. Now my new b/f and I are thinking of having sex. We have fooled around a bit and I have realized that I don't feel like a virgin. I told my b/f and asked him when he went down on me if he could tell that I wasn't a virgin or if I was loose. He told me that he could tell and it made me feel really dirty and sad. Is there any way that I can be tighter?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2005):

I'm only 12 and I think that you should realy get on with life and pretend that your ex b/f did'nt r*pe you. It may be hard to forget but just think, he probably wants you to feel bad, and you have to show him that he doesn't bother you. Then you will feel strong and overcome this horrid event. Hope you feel better soon. xxx from kelly

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