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writes:well i first got with dominic when i was 15 couple months before my 16th birthday and we became inseperable from the first day we met, i practically lived at his, i loved him so much, if i stayed at home, my body used to ache for him ect... i sold out all my friends for him and just remained me and him in our whole little world.1 year 6months later, i started seeing my friends and getting my life back, i ended up cheating on him, i was practically having an affair.i lost the feeling for dominic but remained to stay with him, then i lost the feeling for the lad i had an affair with, and stayed with dominic.Dom found out i cheated and obviously couldnt let it go, so became very obsessive and paranoid, and we drifted apart...then a lad ive spoke to for ages, we've became very close, and me and dom even spoke about it, and he said he doesnt want to be with me, so we decided its best for us not to try again.Im now with this new lad, but dom wont stop texting me and i know i have to cut all contact with him.Even though i cheated on him and i dont feel in love with him.. i cant stop crying when im alone, im crying writing this and when i listen to songs, its my faault and he deserves so much better then me, he did everything for me and i treated him like that.But why am i feeling like this now not months ago?When im with my new bf i forget all my memories with dom and im happy.but when im alone i just cry and cry and cryplease help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2011): Proves that you never escape from your past.
Next time be careful, it might be worst.
Gud luck
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (21 March 2011):
 Guilt is a funny thing, sometimes you don't truely feel it until you're mature enough to understand why you should feel it in the first place.
The truth is you're not over Dom, and you are right that you need to cut the contact. If he's still texting you that's preventing you from moving on. You should not be with him, because it didn't work, and will not work if you try again. You need to give yourself proper time to grieve the lost relationship. That's the only way you'll be able to get over this.
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