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writes: Dear cupidI am 17 and would like to know if girls will be turned of by a person having loose skin, because i currently lost a lot of weight and have loose skin. Now my concern is that girls will be turned off by it, and am afraid of having sex in case they see it and not want to.My question is to the females, would you have sex with someone that has loose skin?Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 March 2008):
 One more thing to add; the sexiest part of a man is his brain... Intelligent, funny, considerate, caring--that is sexy! Everything else is just icing on the cake.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (16 March 2008):
I once dated a guy who had lost something like 150 lbs; I thought he was great, funny and intelligent and just an all around good guy. I really admired him for losing all the weight but he still felt badly about himself and we wound up as just friends because he was so convinced he wasn't attractive. (He's now married with 2 children, so it didn't stop him!)
You're still young and quite probably still physically developing in terms of your muscles and growth, so my guess is that if you eat right, exercise with some weight training (supervised, please!) and abdominal and arm/leg work and either walking or running, your skin will tighten up. Firmer muscles under the skin will hide the looseness quite a bit. I would also suggest that you use some skin moisturizers/lotions that will help keep your skin softer and more supple. There are products on the market that don't smell girly.
If someone likes you for all of your good qualities, she would be a pretty shallow girl to drop you just because you weren't physically 'perfect.' There are very, very few people out there who are 'perfect' despite all the images of models, actors that we are bombarded with every day.
All the best, and good for you for dropping the unnecessary weight!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): I don't think that many girls would refuse to have sex with you because of this, that would just be shallow and mean. It just depends what type of girl you go for really.. I'm sure there was a question about how to lose loose skin a few days ago, so search for that and you might get some good advice from there :] good luck.
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