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Looking for ways to improve our sex life while giving her greater confidence???

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Question - (12 June 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male United States age 41-50, *vguy writes:

My girlfriend has almost zero experience with men. We are both in our 30s and have been sexually active for many years. However, she is bi and most of her sexual experience comes from a long term, same sex relationship. The last thing I want to do is tell her, "You're bad in bed."

Obviously she already knows that she's inexperienced. I think she's a bit self conscious about it too. I'm looking for ways to improve our sex life while giving her greater confidence. I am reminded of the sex therapist in the movie Twister - Or the educational sex tapes on Family Guy. She's an avid reader. Maybe I can get the Kama Sutra on Amazon.

I have searched the web a bit for ways to improve sex. The internet is littered with useless advice from silly teen magazines. I did find one article about yoga improving sex; I intend to follow up on that, but it's not what I was looking for.

Any other ideas on how to get our sex life up to speed?

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