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female
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51-59,
*atmarie
writes:HI, I met a lovely guy when I went on holiday a month ago. We had a really fab and romantic time, and it felt great! he lives where I went on holiday in Tunisia. We swapped emails, address's etc, and I put it down to a holiday romance although he kept asking me to go back and visit in sept, and we grew very close in a short space of time. and I felt that it could be more serious and long term. As soon as I got back to london, I missed him, and began calling and texting him. He texted back, and always responded , but it seems I have to initiate all the contact , and it get's me down a bit, anyway, I texted him and asked him which dates were good for me to go back , and he emailed giving me some rough date, I decided to leave it for a week to se how keen he was before responding,and during that week he sent me a blank email ( weird) and I called him up the next day, and the first thing he said was ' I thought you had forgotten me? what date are you coming over? and he sounded really down, and it was not really much fun talking to him. I mean,if he was that bothered he would contact me more? anyway , I said I would call him back later that evening at 9pm, and his phone was off.!! I texted him and was quite annoyed, then got emotional and texted him the next day saying I was confused, loved him , and missed him, but that he does not make any effort.Anyway, after sending that emotional text I checked my email , and he said sorry that his phone was off , but that he was praying in a mosque,' and pls could I send him a message.' I felt very silly as I had not read it and had sent my 'undying love' text by that time. Anyway.... I have not heard back since last week, but then my freind told me to send him actual realistic dates I could go back and see him, which I have today, as she says that he ' doesn;t belive I am going to go back' I have NO IDEA what to think, as he is not doing anything wrong, so I cannot even dismiss him But I do not like the idea of going back over there and making a fool of myself. This man had also said when I was there that he would ' text everyday' and write to me. he has done neither, but always responds. Can someone tell me whta is going on here? My heart hurts with missing him, and I don;t know if I am too move on, as he is not leeting it go either? is he serious or what? does anyone else have experience wiith LDR's ? Thanks - NatMarie x
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