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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiMe and my bf of 2 years were in LDR for the past 1 year. Recently i came back to my place and we hooked up yesterday. We did have sex for the first time in 1 year and it was great. He said a lot of romantic things like he never met a girl like me before and loves me so much and loves me more than his life.....I expected a call from him today, nothing and i tried reaching him he never took even one single call, didnt answer my text messages. I feel like cheap and cheated and used.I am not sure what to do now. I feel really depressed. BTW i bought a lot of expensive stuff for him and gave it to him when we hooked up. Please please help
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reader, Holliehocks  +, writes (10 August 2011):
Try not to contact him again! For the next few hours or couple of days at least! Then if you still haven't heard from him send him a text just to say that you enjoyed getting together, try not to sound 'needy' and try not to let any anger come across. Play it cool. And don't feel cheap, you've done nothing wrong. Guys think differently to women, we see sex as an emotional journey, they don't. He probably isn't even aware that he should contact youd or that you needed to be reassured.
As for the expensive items, if he's done a runner with them, put it down to experience and know that you are a nicer person because you thought of getting him gifts to make him feel good.
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