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writes:Just curious...so, I read in an article of Cosmopolitan that if a guy locks eyes with you during sex, even just for a few seconds, it means that he wants more than just a physical connection with you. Do you all think that is true or is that a bunch of B.S.? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (11 January 2009):
don't go by cosmo mag or any of these mags. i know they are fun to read, but don't take anything seriously. one of my ex's used to always look into my eyes, but he certainly didn't want anything more then just sex. ass! lol
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 BS.
I am a Seduction Relationship Expert. This is seduction tactic used to make a person feel a deeper level of intimacy than actually exists in a sexual relationship.
The act of sex addresses all of a woman's emotional needs, whereas the act of sex only one of men's emotional needs. That is why women are more prone to falling in love with their sex partners more than men are.
If you want to know what I think makes a man feel the desire to commit to one woman and what those signs are, while only want sex from the other women, I invite you to read the free preview of my book: The Eye of the Seductress.
-Frank Kermit
www.franktalks.com
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (8 January 2009):
 I wouldn't use Cosmopolitan as a definitive guide to life... it's certainly entertaining but let's face it, it is a lot of air-brushing. It's like using porn as an educational tool; a bad idea because it's designed to feed fantasy and sell things, like the magazines. Both are advertiser-driven for the most part. So be inspired by them, enjoy the content, but don't take it too seriously.
So get to know the guy first, then you can gauge if he wants a relationship and not just a fling. It's taken me a long time to understand a fundamental truth: there are no shortcuts in life. (Okay, okay, maybe a couple of people hit the lottery, but for the vast majority of us, it's true.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Nope dont agree. I have slept with many many girls and often do like to look in their eyes to see how turned on they are, how much they are liking the act etc. Out of all those girls I have slept with there were only 2 who I did actually have strong feelings for. The others, sad to admit - were just bootycalls. But nonetheless I look in most women's eyes when having sex.Sorry if that wasnt the answer you were looking for. But dont read these crap from these magazines - they are rarely ever true and alot of times are what women THINK or WANT TO THINK that men think! lolGood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Errr... B.S. It's amazing what people will write in magazines to fill up some space. You'd get more accuracy by consulting an astrologer!
You can't read anything into that situation at all. He would most likely be looking into your eyes to see if there's any change in your expression which would indicate that you were experiencing pleasure, and to what degree.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): Gosh I guess it depends on how he looks at you, LOL don’t know how accurate that can be, I mean you can be busy with a guy and he can look at you with lust in his eyes LOL will that make you think he wants more than just the sex… but then again a guy might be able to give you a better answer there
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