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Lockdown is keeping me away from my mistress. Wife is boring but don't want to lose her while going after mistress

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Question - (25 April 2020) 10 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2020)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife is wonderful. Good at saving money and gets me everything I need. But my mistress is kinky and she will do anything for me. She will wear kinky clothes and let's me do anything to her.

She cries when I have to go home.

Now it's lockdown and I can't see her yet. Sex with the wife is boring. My sex drive is stronger than hers and she is not interested in kinky sex. If I broke away from my wife I could keep my mistress in order but I don't want anyone else to move on in my wife while I'm away.

What do I do?

I just can't stand feeling frustrated like this.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (29 April 2020):

BrownWolf agony auntTo the anonymous Mistress/Writer who wrote...

”I'm a mistress myself and I used to think my lover was the hottest guy on earth til after years together I discovered he was a weak"

I give you a virtual high five, fist bump, biggest hug ever. You laid down a virtual whoopass...LOL

As for you OP...cheating is one thing...Bragging about it... HaHa... It's called...Just wait and see what's coming your way.

LIFE will let you get away with certain things for two readons...

1) Life hopes you wake up, see your mistakes, changes, and learn from them.

2) A guy like you...Life let's you get away with things long enough, to plan your complete downfall. It may happen all at once, or slowly over time...break you apart piece by piece.

It's like a bank robbers...Rob one bank and get away with it..Now you want two banks, and then three. The problem is, the more you do, the harder and longer the punishment.

Don't worry...some other guy will be enjoying your wife and your mistress soon enough. Life is getting the pop corn ready to sit back and watch it all play out.

Remember...you heard it hear first...LOL.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2020):

I'm a mistress myself and I used to think my lover was the hottest guy on earth til after years together I discovered he was a weak, selfish, self centred, arrogant narcissist. The kind of a man who is selfish enough to cheat without an ounce of empathy or a conscience is the kind of a man who will cheat on any woman. You think you're so hot, OP? Think again. All you do is prey on women who are vulnerable, weak or going through a rough time. Easy to be Prince Charming when they're going rough rough times. You're just a predator who swoops in and takes advantage. You're just a SCUMBAG. Your mistress cries when you leave? Must be some ego boost since you're clearly a very weak and insecure man. She cries because she's lonely and messed up. Not because you're good in bed. Get that straight. Not sure what God complex makes you think you're entitled to the love of 2 women. You're just hurting them both and feel like you own them both. You don't. Both are better off without you. Both deserve a real man. I can assure you that once your mistress comes back to reality and all the fairydust wears off her she is going to get sick of your face. And leave you. You will be reduced to something she regretted doing. The biggest mistake she ever made. As for your wife, be prepared for financial ruin and being alone. Don't think women are that stupid that all your fun and games will go on undetected indefinitely. Every cheater eventually gets caught. That's a fact. As for quarantine, don't be an asshole. Stay home. You owe that to your WIFE.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2020):

You're just a rascal with a phony story.

Okay, I'll bite. I'll take the bait.

In a few more years, you'll go limp; and you won't have your wife. God will bless her with someone better.

Your mistress will find another man she can trust; because she knows you dogged your wife for her. She knows you have it in you to cheat on a woman without a conscience. You objectify and use her; but like most women, she will want to be loved. She'll grow tired of you. You'll just grow old and lonely.

The end.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2020):

May God have mercy on your soul.You are a terrible person.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2020):

kenny agony auntWhat should you do? I don't think you really need to come on to DC to obtain an answer to that question.

Your poor wife, your wife who is good to you and gives you everything you need.

And this mistress, she cry's everytime you have to go home. For goodness sake, how old is this woman?

Stay in lock down with your loving unsuspecting wife.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2020):

Plenty of men won’t find your wife boring believe me. The only reason she is boring to you is that you’re not man enough to excite her . Your gf on the other hand is obviously desperate and will do anything just for the attention of a man

Your wife will find out and have a real

Man satisfy her and bring out her willd side, hopefully without letting your know and behind your back !

Be aware that women are not like men and once cheated on if they find another man who truly loves them they tend to leave . You may very well find that this new man has any children you have calling him daddy before too long as well

Good luck with your cheating mistress . Hope you two have a great life paying child support and trying to access your kids

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A male reader, Justryingtohelp United Kingdom +, writes (27 April 2020):

Is this a joke? Are you a troll with too much time on your hands?

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A female reader, Justmy5cents Australia +, writes (27 April 2020):

Justmy5cents agony auntSorry but I have to ask, does your wife allow you to have a mistress? Some wives/husbands love each other greatly but have an understanding due to different sexual appetit, they just don't want to hear about it. If your wife is not one of these type of partners then you sir are one selfish piece of work. If you love her as much as you say, assuming 'Wonderful' means the same in your language, fess up and let her decide if she wants to remain in the marriage or leave.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2020):

Honestly, you are a horrible person. (I hope the moderators allow me to post this). You don’t need our advice- you’re just coming here for the shock factor and to upset people. Find something else to take up your time. I’m sure atoning for your behavior would occupy you for QUITE a while.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2020):

You sound like a low life disgusting waste of break. Just go on with your mistress and let your wife find a man who may truly love her.

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