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writes: Hi.I like this actor who is a similar age to me, we are both in our twenties.I met him for the second time tonight, as i went seeing this show he was in again.He recognised me straight away and gave me a hug, it was him who held his arms out first to give me a hug !. I think i kissed him too or he kissed me, lol it that was that much of a blur i cant remember who did what, but i'm sure there was a kiss there. I was with my brother and he asked us where we were going to go next. I noticed he glanced at me quite abit when he said that. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. The thing is, i know people can find other people attractive even if they are in a relationship, so perhaps he still finds me attractive ?. Also, he lives in London, and i live in the northern area of England, so we don't live very close.I would be willing to relocate though lol as i love London much more than where i live. I mean if i was with anyone in general who lived there, or even if i wasnt seeing anyone, which i'm not. I do love the show itself though, as i have loved the film version of it for years, and i'd like to go and see the show a third time.When he left, he said he was going back to his hotel and he might have been going to a club afterwards, but he said he wasnt sure.However , he gave me his number so that i could send him a message to see what was happening.I asked him if he thought we should wait where we were since he didnt know what was happening and he said yeah.Unfortunately, the pub closed soon after he left, and me and my brother dont know the area very well, so we went home.I think my brother was ready for leaving anyway though.Do you think he gave me his number just to contact him then, or gave it in general so that we could keep intouch anytime ?.I'm wondering whether to contact him either on his phone tomorrow, maybe i shouldnt ring but send a text message instead ?. He isnt working tomorrow. Or i could send him a private message or a comment on a social networking site we are intouch on.I'd like to tell him that we left soon after he did as the pub closed,ask how he is, and say it was great to meet him and hope to see him again soon.Does that sound ok ?.Obviously i want to keep it friendly.I find it pretty hard liking him though for the reasons i mentioned.If he found me attractive though or thought i was a nice person it would help lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): hi. i only wanted to text him as i didnt really say goodbye to him properly last night as he wasnt sure what he was going to be doing so i thought we might have met up again later.I think it also seems strange that he would give a stranger his number only to use it last night, but then people have different reasons for doing things. My brother said he thought he was giving us his number in general, he had to put the number in my brother's phone at first as my phone wasnt switched on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): You have only met him twice, and he has a girlfriend. 'Nuff said. Find someone "charismatic" that is single.
What you explained here seems to me that he enjoys having a fan and he is just being nice. Don't think too much into it. You went into detail every little thing that happened/what you thought/felt...if he wanted to contact you then he would contact you. it's just that simple. dont make it complicated because you'll end up with a broken heart.
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reader, califnan  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 Maybe a phone call to him - telling him what you had planned to tell him.. Give him your number and ask him if you should text him the number in case he is occupied.. The reason why I said phone - is so you would be sure he receives your message.. Print up your own cards - in case this should arise again .. But proceed cautiously because you know that if he dates others while he has a girl friend, that he doesn't really stay in relationships..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): So you know he has a girlfriend, but you want to be his friend to do something like...trap him? Men find all sorts of women attractive. He could be a cheater or he could just have been being friendly. Either way, no don't text him, call him, or stalk him. You've met him for the second time, yet you're contemplating relocating to be closer to him? If he is pursuing you whatsover while having a girlfriend, that's bad news. If you try to pursue him (even if you want to pretend it's friends) that's not good either. Let it go and find someone that's available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): There's abit more to the title of this post, i would also like to know what you think he may think of me. I think i like him so much because, in my opinion,i have never met anyone as charismatic as he is.And there could be more to it than that.
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