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female
age
36-40,
*alyov
writes:So my friend Brian set me up with his bestfriend and we started dating. Well Brian has a twin named Brad and one day I was over at their house with my ex hanging out and while we were there my ex (he was still my bf at the time)was being stupid and laying on a pile of blankets in the corner between the bed and wall...well we wanted to watch a movie so I laid on the bed with Brad to see the tv. Well there wasn't much room on his small bed and I wanted to lay down but he already was.I stole his awesomely soft pillow and put it the only place I could. His hands were folded over his chest so I told him to move them (were all pretty close friends). I placed the pillow on him and laid down. He held his hands up while awhile not sure what to do with them.He placed one at his side but decided to put the other around me which I pushed away and sat up and glared at him because he was rubbing his thumb against me.Later on he tried holding my hand which I thought was weird.Well the other day Brian invited me (along with his gf) to come to his Superbowl party. He told me my ex wasn't going to be there, but when I showed up he was because Brad had invited him.Well I talked to Brad all day (to my ex's dislike) and then when my ex left he wanted to watch a movie.so we all went to the bedroom and put in Iron Man.Well him and I laid on his bed while the other two went up to the top bunk and laid down(and of course to make out).Well I stole his amazingly awesome pillow again, but this time there was room on the bed because he was in the corner.So I laid down and we talked about the movie from tie to time and I was about to fall asleep half way through because of the heating blanket he had under the fitted sheet.Well my hand was just laying there and I felt him brush against it with his own. I figured it was an accident, until he started playing with my fingers and the interlocked them.I thought it was nice, yah know...just holding hands...didn't feel all that bad, plus I was half asleep.Well the then wrapped his arms around me and brought me to him.And thats where I had to stop him because he started to try and take advantage of my low cut shirt.Well my friend and I left and I was telling her all this so on tueasday she talked to him online and said."So you and Kara got a bit cosy the other night?"and he said 'No'which she took to be defensive. He never really talks to me unless I am at his house. If I try talking to him online he says just a few things all one word responses. Tough he did try stopping me in the hall two weeks ago and we talked for about 2min because someone interrupted us.And this week he just watched me when I walked by, not saying anything.So does this guy like me? Or just want someone to make out with...because if thats it I think I will tell him "If you want my lips you have to have the rest because they come in a package. I dont want to be 'just someone to make out with'
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reader, Kalyov +, writes (8 February 2009):
Kalyov is verified as being by the original poster of the question That could bit itI have wondered that myselfI know my ex really didnt want Brad and I to talk for some reasonand Im almost just ask shy I hate confronting people XDand yeah Id rather talk to him at his house than at school for the 'do you like me or what?" talk
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (8 February 2009):
 is it possible that he feels shy/ awkward around you in school? maybe he's just more comfotable in his own house... because he does seem to like you. but if you're so worried, maybe you shoudl talk to him.
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