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writes:There is this girl I like and I'm not sure but I think she likes me to.She says that she loves her boyfriend to death but that he is really distant and she is really needy and so am I. Me and her have a lot in common, She will tell me about her problems and I will tell her about mine. I've showed her some of my written poetry and she said that she loves it and that I'm really good at poetry. She told me that she loves poetry too and if I want, I can read it.I told her we should hang out sometime and she said we should. I told her that I had to go but would like to continue this conversation so I left her my cell number. She said that she doesn't have a cell phone right now but is getting a new one. She gave me her home number.1. Does this girl like me back?2. What should I do?3. Yes, I know she has a boyfriend but I know her boyfriend. Me and him use to be friends until he pissed my ex off. He has been a real jerk recently which is why I don't feel bad so please don't waste your time telling me I'm a bad person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): This girl is digging you but I wouldn't say like just yet. There is a subtle difference. She could just be looking for a friend to console her. You telling us not to waste our time makes me a bit curious. If you didn't think of this as bad at all then you wouldn't really think of telling us that. Besides who cares what a bunch of strangers think of you? Just thought I'd let you know that saying that may mean that a little bit of you feels guilty enough to the point that you have to justify yourself. Hopefully that bit didn't get you to stop reading. This girl may just confused at the moment so take it slow and be cautious. If she does end up liking you and wanting a relationship(of any sort), then make sure she isn't cheating on the guy. This guy may very well be a jerk and fully undeserving of this girl, but cheating is a big no no. If she wants to be with you, and you with her, then make sure she is single at that point. I wouldn't say to make her break up with him because if she ends up missing him or their relationship, she will blame you and might start resenting you a bit. So simply tell her as a friend that if she isn't happy with the relationship and doesn't love him (enough) to try and work it out then she should end that relationship. Trust me this will make your life a whole lot less painful. I've stolen a girl from a guy. I knew him and he was a total douche who used girls for sex. She deserved better so I stole her from him. Of course I did what I said above and everything worked out for the better, although I am no longer with her. Just thought I'd let you know I've been in your shoes and don't want you, her or even him to get anymore hurt than necessary. Good luck ~FGC
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2010): It seems like she is in to you. But take it slow call her up and see if she will hang out, then after a few times if you still feel the same wat make your move. And good luck
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