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Let him go or keep him around?

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Question - (14 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *irly_85 writes:

Okay so I am beyond frustrated with this guy i'm dealing with. i don't even know if its dealing, there is no title. We met about 3 and a half years ago and we live a distance of 4hrs apart. For the last couple years we've basically kept in touch and seen each other here and there. More recently i've been really having stronger feelings for him and the same for him, things just kinda grew between us... i guess i let myself go and ended up really feeling him as a result. He's everything i want he's just too far away. And like i said, we have no definition of whether we're friends, potential lovers or what. I told him i would move closer if he wants to try a relationship (i was moving anyways but not sure as to where). Recently he asked me if he had a girlfriend would it be okay for me to be his girl on the side? I said "hell no" I think myself much more than that. Because of that remark and the long drawn out "thing" that this is, should i just leave him alone and let it go? Or, wait just a little bit longer and see where its going to lead?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008):

he doest seem like he thinks very highly of you to ask such a question...what an a**

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