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36-40,
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writes:I have prob. My mums best friends son is unpredictable. He stares at me in his rearview mirror and then looks away.Took few pix of me secretly. He and I confessed of our feelings in the past but funny that evening I was told in confidnece by my mum that his mother told her that he feels ackward around me and doesn't fancy mio. He used hold my hand when we were alone and sent me txt with i love u, i miss u. I replied likewise. I didn't tell him what his mum said. However, he suddenly got cold and pretended nothing happened between us. I had to go a long with it.He goes into a silent mode with me. it's like is terrified of me. e.g my bag was behind him on his seat and i try to get it, He got up and walked away silently across the room.But few weeks ago we got involved in convo. and he got real close and started whispering in my ear while playing with hair (He always did that)He has a GF but he never mentions her like she don't exist (found that she does frm his bro) and funny she kinda looks like me. makeup hair, cloths.Does he fancy? I'm confused.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 He probably does fancy you but if he has a girlfriend do you really want to send the message that its okay to have girls behind her back?
Women and girls are sort of at fault for why men and boys are pigs. Females don't respect relationships and males get the idea they can have as many women as they want because girls are always willing to mess around with them when they know they have someone.
I decided to give up on men because too many females out there think its okay to mess things up. Find someone single otherwise you are being a bitch. Just wait till it happens to you. And when it does, don't cry about it.
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