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writes:okay it started with me liking this guy , lets called him "bob" he is realy nice and funny and everything i look in a guy, i got friendly with him and we started to talk but then i found out he liked my best friend, i was realy annoyed because my best friend liked him too. so i dicided to be a good friend and get them together, now "bob" keeps asking her out but she never says yes or no and it is soo fustrating, i think she just likes the attention :/ should i tell him how i feel or just leave it ? or maybe tell my friend how im feeling :/ help me pleaaasee!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 June 2010):
 That's weird. Your best friend likes him but won't say yes? Sounds like a real game player.
Normally, I advocate being honest and outright telling the guy that you like him, but in this case, I don't think I'd want to be the one he dates by default because he can't have who he really wants.
I say leave the guy alone. Switch your interests elsewhere, and if he wants you, HE needs to make the move that proves to you that he's choosing YOU, not your best friend by proxy. Better yet, find a better guy who couldn't care less about your best friend!
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reader, petina1  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Tell your friend that if she doesnt want him you want to make a play for him but you won't tread on her toes if she does want to go out with him. That's being fair. If she can't give him an answer it sounds like she isnt that bothered about him anyway. Good Luck! Hope this helps.
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