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Laid my soul bare, told him I love him, he is not sure he loves me, should I continue in this relationship, when he doesn't love me back?

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Question - (4 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *jontaela writes:

I told my boyfriend of a year and half that I loved him the other night.

We have always got along very well and I thought he felt the same way too.

But he replied that he doesn't know if he loves me or not.

I don't really know what to make of it. Of course I don't want to break up with him but yet I know its bad for me to go out with someone I love if they don't love me.

I feel very hurt, does anyone have any advice as to whether I should continue in the relationship and how when I have laid my soul bare and got that in return.

I am normally quite a stoic person so it took a lot of courage for me to come out and say that.

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A female reader, Sjontaela United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

Sjontaela is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Cupid Guy,

Maybe I should point out that he is 25 and I am 20.

Also we are in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year.

And, I have never heard of these 4 needs and 7 levels of intimacy. What are they?

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A female reader, lexilou United Kingdom +, writes (4 August 2008):

lexilou agony auntWow its taken a whole 18 months for you to say I love you and after a whole 18 months he says he's not sure if he loves you?????????

Why are you wasting your time with this guy!? x

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