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Ladies & Guys..is this the RIGHT way to let go?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *nique-angel writes:

I was getting to know this guy after a month he always seemed like he was playing games emotional ones and i had enough of it.

if you look at my other questions i posted..that will give u some back ground so i decided to say bye.It was a nice good bye, no bad feelings or nothing because i am quite soft at times.

now on msn i don't bother talking to him, well he doesn't speak to me anyways.. it use to be me always who had to start a conversation and he use to ignore me at the end. for two days then would talk and repeat the whole cycle again...why??

i'm trying to pretend i don't care and just have fun with my mates, but it is temptation . as soon as i come online he does..when i change my status to busy he does it to away. its not acoincidencee or me being vain.

but end of the day. i've let him go..if he cared he will make the first move won't he?

people say he's trying to make me jealous. then again i think he's not intrested. i am trying to give him a cold shoulder more because he always use to keep me guessing it was one fo his things. and i had enough of cat and mouse games.

thanks

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A female reader, Paig67 United States +, writes (12 February 2009):

My partner did the same to me and weve been together for 8 years, untill recently I just had enough of the push and pull games. He was only ever interested in me when I acted like I wasnt interested in him or too busy. When we were on Skype he wouldnt usually say alot, I would allways have to start the conversation. I felt like I was constantly chasing after him.

To be honest hes probably no longer interested,some men can be ruthless and he sounds the same, my advice drop him all together even if it is tempting when he comes on line. I know that feeling but all too often its ended up me being in tears and him not giving a damn!

You can do better!

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