A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have a big issue ladies!! i cant NOT reach the big O! it's not like i'm new to having sex either. it feels good when my guy fingers me and when i have clitoral stimulation with my vibrator but when i have sex i dont feel anything, maybe some pain or discomfort but definitely not pleasure! what is wrong with me? what can i do to fix this!! please help!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (19 January 2012):
 In my opinion, "person12345" is on the right track - your guy needs to focus on your clitoris - preferably with cunnilingus to begin with. Few women climax with vaginal sex alone. However, plenty of oral stimulation to the clit, followed by vaginal penetration, may result in the big "O."
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reader, person12345 +, writes (19 January 2012):
 Nothing is wrong with you! Women have VERY few nerve endings in their vaginas, all the better to not go into extreme shock during childbirth. The clitoris is the pleasure organ, not the vagina. The first 3 inches (you can't feel much past that) of your vagina can really better be described at erogenous zones. Even when women have what they believe are vaginal orgasms, the vast majority of the time it's because the clitoris was stimulated indirectly. There is NOTHING wrong with, keep going with the clitoral stimulation. Put your hand over your guy's hand and show him how exactly you like to be touched and try having him focus on your clitoris rather than your vagina if he isn't already.
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