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female
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*iona666
writes:Hey,I’m going through a hard time with a guy. I met him quite recently and when we first started going out it was perfect. Just fantastic. He told me he loved me after just a few weeks and I felt the same back he said he wanted to live with me in a few months time once we had finished our university course and he said he had never cared for a girl like he had cared for me. Then I got ill and we were apart for quite a while he then got ill himself and then we had all the coursework deadlines so during all this we hardly ever saw each other but continued our relationship through text messages. He constantly told me he loved me and we saw each other only a few times. Then things went strange he was having problems at home and he didn’t message me for a few days and I had no idea what was wrong. He eventually messaged me and said his dad had been on the alcohol so he had to move to his friend’s house. After this message it was then days later before I heard from him again. He texted me saying he had just got out of the police station. Ofc I was very worried and phoned and texted him I had no idea what had gone one but I received no response for days. He eventually contacted me and swore at me saying leave me the f alone and stop hounding me he declared that he had spent a night in a prison cell and that he had been in hospital also. I was very upset and worried as I care about him a lot and I wanted to support him through this yet he responded to me by swearing at me. I should also add that he wouldn’t add me on facebook as he had previously deleted me due to an argument we had. On questioning him as to why he wouldn’t re-add me , he answered that he couldn’t get on the internet. With him asking me to stop hounding me I gave him space but then I saw one of my friends from uni had wrote on his wall asking him out for a drink he had replied yes so obviously I questioned him as to why he wouldn’t add me on facebook? As quite clearly he did have access to it. He did not answer and then broke up with me saying that right now he is that messed up he cant handle a relationship and that he cant feel any emotional connection to anyone. I was devastated I thought he loved me and he said I was special and it hurt me that he suddenly felt nothing. He is now saying he would like us to start from scratch once he sorted himself out. He says he needs space. He asked me to be calm and patient and wait for him. My question is should I wait for him? I’m so conflicted because I love him but I struggle to understand his actions.
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