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writes: I have recently been on holiday with my parents and my cousin came along with her parents too as our parents do get along.i am male and i am 18 and i admit that i do like her in more than just friends. A little background info is that she is actually my step cousin. Some people think this is not wrong some people do, but its upto you if u think its wrong.Before we went on holiday she came around my house n we started talking, then she came round the next day and we agreed that it was good that we finally had someone nice to talk to.then one day she came with a dvd n said we cud watch it. So we did but i was wondering if their was any intentions. Some of my friends say she was treading water n testing me if i wud make a move. Unfortunatly i didnt make a move. After this she did not come round again. Then the next time i saw her was on holiday 5 weeks later.We met up everyday on holiday and we sat together sunbathing and talking to each other about personal things such as sex and how we like it and previous relationshsips we have had. We really did get along.Then on evenings when we was with each others parents we would walk off after we had a meal to be alone together. We wud sit alone in the dark n we would talk about more personel stuff again such as sex. But i always got the feeling she would want me to get closer to her or sumthing. If she wasnt my cousin then i probably would have but this was all i could think of, n also i wud think does she feel the same.Anyway on the last day of her holiday because i was staying longer than her. She said to me on the beach when we was with our family `Do you want to come to my hotels pool?'. I said yes, so we walked to her hotel and then she said 'Im going to go upstairs to pack my suitcase, you want to come along', again i said yes because i didnt want to sit on my own at the pool. Then when we was in the room she said straight away ' I am going to go for a shower' so i said ok i will wait, She went in with her bikini n i expected her to have a shower and then dry herself, get changed and come out, but she came out of her shower with just a towel wrapped around her. I didnt understand what she wanted. Are We just Really Good Friends? or Does She Fancy me too? I didnt do anything, i didnt make no move, i felt i would regret it if i did but now i have regret inside because after asking my friends opinions they say that she wanted me to make a move.So please any comments and any thoughts of this would be very appreciated because i am very confussed :(:(Just friends or does she want sex??
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reader, Kati3 +, writes (26 August 2006):
 I think you should just ask her. After all, you're not a mindreader, and she's your cousin, so she may be acting like that because you're family.Hope this helps!Katie xx
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (18 August 2006):
 Duuuuuuh!!!!!! Yes she wanted something? It wasn't friendship. I don't one female friend who would get wear a towel around me. I don't know if the fact that they don't like me that well or uncomfortable doing such. I have talked about sex with female friends but for my experience its the tone in which this conversation takes place otherwise its just a conversation. I would try something subtle to find out. Like I would stroke her hair or give her a massage or if that fails hell man just ask. What do you have to lose she will always be your "cousin" so to speak. What ever you choose it will have to be prompt she will think you're not interested after so long. Good Luck!
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